07/12/2015 | Julie Porter | Leave a comment I don’t know why, but my wife has not wanted to have sex very often lately, and it has caused a bit of frustration in my life. It seems like when we first got married, we used to do it all of the time. But now as time has gone on, the frequency has gone down a good bit. But recent developments have exceeded the typical decrease in frequency over the past years, and I think it is time to try something new. I want to buy some sex toys to try to reignite the flame and make her more likely to have sex with me at a higher frequency. I do not know if she is just bored, or what the issue is. But something has to be done, and I think that the sex toys have as good of a shot of working as anything. If I am going to buy them though, I will need to think hard and try to figure out what would be best to buy for her. I need to figure it out what she would like and what would do the best job at making her horny. I guess that would be a good thing to ask her about, but I kind of want to buy the toys as a surprise for us to use. So I am not really sure how to make it a surprise and figure out what to buy for her. I guess I could try to ask her some questions about it without revealing the reason that I am asking. That might work and I guess I should at least give it a shot. I hope to find some discounts or sales on sex toys as well so I do not have to spend quite as much money to buy them. That would be nice.